{"id":175,"date":"2025-06-07T13:27:38","date_gmt":"2025-06-07T03:27:38","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/itcanbeok.com.au\/index.php\/blank-theme-3\/"},"modified":"2025-09-11T12:09:20","modified_gmt":"2025-09-11T02:09:20","slug":"blank-theme-3","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/itcanbeok.com.au\/index.php\/blank-theme-3\/","title":{"rendered":"Trauma"},"content":{"rendered":"\n
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WHY IS IT HAPPENING?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

TRAUMA\/ABUSE\/RITUAL ABUSE\/DOMESTIC VIOLENCE<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

This is a very difficult subject to discuss for a lot of people, for a number of different reasons including shame, fear, fear of loss, anger, lost memories and many more.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

COERCIVE CONTROL is also included here. What is it? – it is typically patterns of ongoing continuous abuse over time, which are often covert and difficult to identify, used by one person to control, dominate, and intimidate another, usually an intimate partner. It can involve a range of behaviours designed to erode a person’s autonomy and self-esteem, creating a sense of fear and dependence, and can include isolation, financial control, monitoring, manipulation, threats, and emotional or psychological abuse. This form of abuse is not limited to physical violence; non-physical tactics like controlling access to money, dictating clothing or movement, monitoring communications, and undermining a person’s confidence are key components. Coercive control can occur in intimate partner relationships, even after they have ended, and can also happen in family relationships, with the perpetrator often using tactics to make the victim feel trapped and afraid – this behaviour is now illegal in NSW.<\/strong> <\/p>\n\n\n\n

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All forms of trauma can take time to work through and are not limited to what may have physically happened to you, but may involve things you have seen, heard or been told by someone else. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

It includes, Domestic violence, PTSD, Sexual abuse or assault, ritual abuse or SRA, resulting in some form of dissociation, or leaving your body. It may involve MK ultra, and other violent forms of physical control by systems and organisations. If you have experienced ritual abuse here is a link to two sites on our blog page that also may help. Look for “Unveiling the System”, and ” Kanaan Ministries”.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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I want you to know one thing… I BELIEVE YOU. You are not weird, and what you are experiencing and feeling is real, lets start working on it together.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

However… trauma has two sides, the survivor and the person who has inflicted it. If you are the person who has inflicted it, there is also hope for you. It does not have to define who you are. You are not destined to carry on this behaviour. There is hope for you too, you can change, but you need to start work immediately.<\/strong><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n

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